There are many people in the world. This is not new. We are all different. This is not new. Yet, in some ways, we are all the same. This may be new to you! LOL
I am a detailed kinda person. When I talk to you in person, I can go on and on and on without stopping or changing topics because most likely I am going to be giving you every single detail you can imagine. Why? I don't know. I just am. That is how I am wired. My loving other half on the other hand, is not. He wants you to cut to the chase, and be done. LOL Uhm... I haven't yet gotten to that point even after being together for 17 years ( 14 1/2 of that we have been married) of "just getting to the point". I dont' know if I ever will. I am working on it though, at least with him. Ha! There is probably no hope for anyone else to benefit from that.
Anyway, that is where I am right now, in everything I do. "Just get to the point!". Weightloss, Mothering, being a wife, homemaking, teaching etc. I am done just tiptoeing around everything. I am getting to the point, and to be honest, I LIKE IT! I like the fact that things matter enough to me to stop letting things just happen as it were to happen. I am not saying I am making them happen on my own, I am not. But, I am also not just letting things go past me without trying to grab them first. I have the drive, motivation, and excitment to do all that I can to reach my goals in life. I didn't have that six months ago, three months ago, not even a month ago. Heck I don't know if I had that two weeks ago.
So, the great things for me... is "game over". I no longer play games with myself. Because of that, I am not longer playing games with others.