If any of you lacks wisdom, he should ask God, who gives generously to all without finding fault, and it will be given to him.— James 1:5 (NIV)
This amazes me because so many people (even good Christians with good intentions) will constantly be giving out wisdom, and then condemnation (even silent condemnation) if you don't follow "their" way. I can't tell you how many adventures I have been on, under advice of some Christian friends, that just didn't go as planned. Why? Because it was their wisdom that was saught, and not God's. Then when it didn't go well, fault was found in me because it just didn't work. BUT... that's okay! I am not after man's approval! (Actually, I am working on that. Too often I seek out their approval over God's.)I SEEK GOD"S approval over all. THAT is all that matters!