I thought I would spend some time this morning sharing something with you, and encourage you in starting to change your life for the better. You do not have to feel stuck in your life, or feel like you "missed the boat" in achieving the goal of a lifetime ~ whatever that might be.
Stop what you are doing right now. Turn off the TV/radio/ everything and I want you to close your eyes and think this thought "If I could what I love for the rest of my life and be fulfilled, have the support system I need, and feel successful what would I want to be/do?". Seriously. Stop what your doing and ask yourself that question. Answers like "I don't know" or "I am okay now" is not what I am after or want to hear. And it shouldn't be what you really feel either.
Yes I am happy with my life, but I can be honest and say it is not how I want my life to be forever. I want more for my life. I have dreams and goals that I have not achieved yet and I will not settle for them just being dreams and goals.
"If your sitting on a fence, it 's the perfect perch to watch life pass you by" ~ Unknown
But here is what most of our problem is. We either don't really want what we say we do, or we are afraid to get out of our comfort zone and do the work to get there. This goes with any dream/goal you could possibly have and seriously is the ONLY limitation to achieving them. It is not money. It is not age. Those have been used as excuses in the past but there are enough success stories to debunk them as truth.
If you truly want to do what you say you want to do , you MUST get off the fence. Stop talking about it and do something towards it. Reaching your goals .... means you have to take some form of action and talk is not the action that will get you there.
"It doesn't matter what side of the fence you get off on sometimes. What matters most is getting off. You cannot make progress without making decisions." Jim Rohn
1. YOU MUST decide that your tired of living from one day to the next with not much intention.
2. YOU MUST put aside these time robbers that are stealing your "time" so that you allow it be the excuse that is keeping you from your goals and dreams. We all have 24 hours, most of us work outside of the home, have families and homes to take care of, but .... the achievers use their time taking steps that will catapult them into position to reach the goals before them. The ones who are still sitting around "wishing" simply are not being productive with their time.
3. Decide that the goals and dreams you have are worth fighting for. IF not, then maybe you need to re-evaluate what you really want.
"What you get by achieving your goals is not as important as what you become by achieving your goals." Zig Ziglar